Monday, December 21, 2009

nowhere to hide



Only 10% of the earth remains remote; that is, at least 48 hours away from a major city. More than half of the world's population lives within a day of a major city, so one can see the connections of interdependency and sustainability reflected in those figures.

Read the full article here on Discover Magazine.

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Trans in the News: New York State Extends Protections to Transgender New Yorkers

Here's another Trans in the News quick hit: New York State just passed a bill extending protections to transgender New York state employees.

Here's one for the team!

Click here to read the full article here on 365Gay.


(Albany, NY) New York Governor David A. Paterson issued an executive order extending anti-discrimination policies to gender identity for state employees Wednesday.

“Governor Paterson has taken significant action to advance equality for all New York state employees,” said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. “The ability to provide for our families is non-negotiable. We applaud Governor Paterson for his commitment to the LGBT community and look forward to working with fair-minded New York legislators to pass the Gender Expression Non-Discrimination Act which will protect private employees.”

An executive order prohibiting discrimination in state employment is the furthest extent to which any governor is able to exercise his or her executive power. Extending protections to private employees must be accomplished by the state legislature. New York joins eight other states in which an executive order, administrative order, or personnel regulation prohibits discrimination against public employees based on sexual orientation and gender identity: Delaware, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Maryland, Michigan, Ohio, and Pennsylvania.

In addition, twelve states and the District of Columbia prohibit full employment discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity: California, Colorado, Illinois, Iowa, Maine, Minnesota, New Jersey, New Mexico, Oregon, Rhode Island, Vermont, and Washington. Nine more states, including New York, prohibit employment discrimination based only on sexual orientation. For an electronic map showing where employment non-discrimination stands in the states, please visit: www.HRC.org/State_Laws.

Trans in the News: Rare Gender Identity Defect Hits Gaza Families

One of the things I would like to do with this blog is keep up to date information on transgender/transsexual happenings in the news. The first post in the "Trans in the News" series is about male pseudohermaphroditism, which is affecting an unusual amount of boys in Gaza. Very interesting, and a fascinating video accompanies the article.

Read the article on CNN.com and watch the video here.


Gaza City (CNN) -- Two Palestinian teenagers stroll amid the mounds of rubble left by last year's Israeli military offensive, listening to the tinny beat of a Turkish pop song playing on a cell phone.

Nadir Mohammed Saleh and Ahmed Fayiz Abed Rabo are cousins and next-door neighbors. With their gelled hair, buttoned-down shirts and jeans, they look much like any other 16-year-old Palestinian boy. But looks, Ahmed says, can be deceiving.

"Only my appearance, my haircut and clothing, makes me look like a boy," Ahmed says, gesturing with his hands across his face. "Inside, I am like a female. I am a girl."

Until last summer, both Nadir and Ahmed were -- for all intents and purposes -- girls. They wore female headscarves, attended girls' school and even answered to the female first names Navin and Ola.

Both Nadir and Ahmed were born with a rare birth defect called male pseudohermaphrodism.

Deficiency of the hormone 17-B-hydroxysteroid dehydrogenase (17-B-HSD) during pregnancy left their male reproductive organs deformed and buried deep within their abdomens.

At birth, doctors identified Nadir and Ahmed as girls, because they appeared to have female genitalia.

As a result, they spent the first 16 years of their lives dressing and acting like girls. It was a role that grew increasingly difficult to play, as they hit puberty and their bodies began generating testosterone, resulting in facial hair and increasingly masculine features.

"They used to travel by car to girls' school and back," says Nadir's father Mohammed Sadih Ahmed Saleh. "Because of their facial hair, it was difficult for them to go out into the street. Psychologically they were distressed."

Finally, on June 22, with the support of their families, both Nadir and Ahmed transformed themselves into boys.

"They transferred on the same day," Saleh says. "Clothing, they switched to the other [boys'] school on the same day. They cut their hair on the same day. Both of them helped each other get through this crisis."

There are an unusually high number of male pseudohermaphrodite births in the Gaza neighborhood of Jabalya, where Nadir and Ahmed live.

Dr. Jehad Abudaia, a Canadian-Palestinian pediatrician and urologist practicing in Gaza, says he has diagnosed nearly 80 cases like Nadir's and Ahmed's in the last seven years.

"It is astonishing that we have [so] many cases with this defect, which is very rare all over the world," Abudaia says. He attributes the high frequency of this birth defect to "consanguinity," or in-breeding.

"If you want to go to the root of the problem, this problem runs in families in the genes." Abudaia says. "They want to get married to cousins... they don't go to another family. This is a problem."

In Western, more developed countries, doctors typically identify and then operate to correct disorders of sex differentiation at birth. But in war-torn Gaza, which has a lower standard of medical care, the birth defect can go undetected for years.

"Some of them unfortunately will be discovered late, when they are more than 14 years [old]. When they have been living as a female and they don't have menstruation, then they will go to the gynecologist," Abudaia says.

Abudaia's first advice to patients with the disorder is to immediately adopt male clothing and hair cuts, and then to plan for a sex-change operation.

This unusual ritual has been performed several times in the extended family of Nadir and Ahmed, where sex differentiation is a recurring disorder.

Nadir's 21-year-old brother Midyam and his 32-year-old cousin Ameen Abd Hamed share the same condition of male pseudohermaphrodism. As adolescents, they too underwent the gender identity transformation process the family refers to as "the transfer."

The traumatizing experience is all the more difficult because Gaza is a socially-conservative society, where there is a fair amount of segregation between males and females.

"I sat down with Nadir and explained to him how to adapt to the street, how to sit with the guys and talk to them... because at the beginning his mental state was bad, just like what happened to me," Ameen says.

"We did not understand what to do," says Ahmed, one of the 16-year-olds. "It was a new life for us, as if we were born again."

Though Nadir and Ahmed clearly have the love and support of their family, they say that is not enough. They are appealing to the international community to help them get the expensive and complicated sex-change operations they say they need to live normal lives.

"It's the only obstacle and the source of all the problems," Nadir says.

Until the sex-change operation is completed, Palestinian officials won't change the gender on their identity cards to "male," thus restricting their access to higher education.

In addition, Nadir and Ahmed complain of health problems like kidney infections due to complications resulting from the disfigurement of their genitalia.

"This is 100 percent a humanitarian issue," says Nadir's father, Mohammed. "There are four conditions in the same [extended] family. If we propose conducting the same operation on all four of them, the cost would be $30,000. We don't have $30,000 and there is no advanced medicine in Gaza."

Until then, these troubled Palestinians say their genders and their identities will remain in conflict, much like the land around them.

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Featured FTM #1: Joshua (transguys, transoutlaw)

Every so often I will feature another transguy on my blog. I believe every guy deserves a voice and there are so many guys with great videos and great things to say that need to be heard, and I want to give the other guys in the community the word.

That being said, the first guy I am featuring is Joshua, also known as transoutlaw on YouTube, and @transguys on Twitter. He maintains the super awesome Gender Outlaw Blog, and Transguys.com, the internet's premier magazine for transmen. Joshua is an awesome guy and someone I personally look up to, so without further ado...

Sunday, December 6, 2009

Troy is Getting Lower Surgery on December 8th!

Just a short video I made Troy wishing him good luck with his lower surgery coming up on Tuesday.





Here is a birthday video I made for him a couple years ago:




Here is a photo montage I made of documenting our top surgery experience. We had our surgeries done together on December 12, 2006 with Dr. Beverly Fischer in Baltimore, Maryland.



Good luck, Troy!

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

changing your name

i was recently asked a question about the emotional aspect of changing your name, and i thought that was a great question, as most questions are concerned with the tangible technicalities of name change: documents, court appearances, filling out complicated forms, lawyers, obtaining funds for legal fees, etc.

changing your name is one of the first and biggest steps you take in your transition, whether you choose to legally pursue a name change or not. there is a complex process involved which includes not only picking a new name to be called for the rest of your life (which causes some great anxiety at times, i can attest!), but social aspects as well like getting your friends and family to actually call you the name you've chosen, which once again i can attest that this is no easy (nor quick) feat.

since i was not yet vlogging at the time i was actually picking my name (and coming to terms with leaving my old name and initials behind), i do not have any videos document that process as well as my nominal social transition.i documented the process wellin my livejournal at the time, because that is where all the transguys documented their transitions until youtube came alone.

that being said, here are still some videos related to name change nevertheless:











i hope you find some of them helpful.

Monday, November 23, 2009

transguy panel: paying for surgery

i get many questions about how i paid for my surgery, and different ways to go about getting the funds. i did a small panel with two other transmale friends asked them about their experiences too.



how did you pay for your surgery? did you host a benefit or some other kind of party? did you use a CD to save?

trans-themed books & dvds

a quick overview of trans-themed books and films. this is by no means a comprehensive list.

childhood toys

what kinds of toys did you play with as a child? were they traditionally male or female-gendered toys?



bringing the 1950's back with match rockets:

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

STP info.

*edited on sunday, january 31, 2010 at 5:00 PST.

i have received many messages about how to go about ordering STPs.

STPs are $45 made with the standard semi-soft tubing.

shipping is $7 anywhere in the US. i will ship to international guys, but shipping will be determined by specific location.

the total for a STP packer (medicine spoon and tubing included) is $52.

paypal payment is preferred through electricacidkoolaidtest@gmail.com, but other arrangements for payment can be made.

harness orders are not currently being taken at this time. i have my hands full with work and many projects (both which involve the trans community), and harnesses take far too long to make as i have no one helping me with orders at this time. i will post an instructional video soon on how to make your own harness so guys can start making their own.

also, you should note there is no set time for orders to be shipped. i do not make stps full time, just got into this because i helped a few people out then it grew far too fast and i wasn't able to keep up properly with all the orders. mango takes many months to deliver their products(i've been hearing reports of 6+ months to receive the package) if they deliver the package at all.

i have been sent various messages about guys who have personally ordered from mango in the last year and received nothing and have also read multiple accounts from men on the FTM-trans list that they are also having problems with their order. if you've had a problem with mango in the last year, leave a comment here.

packers come in TAN or PINK, and are 3.5'. special requests can be made for larger sizes.

feel free to e-mail me at charliewarhol@gmail.com for more information.

here are some pictures of the device:







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personal note to everyone who has ordered an STP/tubing/harness:

that being said, if you have ordered from me and have not received it, first of all, my deepest apologies. i intend to fulfill every order that has been made, no matter when it was placed. second, please contact me at charlesasheryt@gmail.com with your paypal/order info so we can work something out. even though i have saved every STP order, i literally have thousands of e-mails in my inbox and sometimes things slip past me. i want to work things out with everyone who placed an order at anytime.

i understand if you are upset at not receiving your order and i truly apologize, but please do not go through unnecessary means to "send me a message" (ie hate channels, hate commenting in general, etc), rather just send me a message and we'll get things worked out! once again, the e-mail is charlesasheryt@gmail.com.